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The best of the best resources for legal research, D-I-Y, co-parenting, rebuilding your life, support groups, legal resources, finding a skilled Mediator, vetting your attorney, and so much more... 

legal resources

  • American Bar Association
  • State Bar Associations
  • Mediate.com 
  • American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers
  • Institute for Divorce Financial Analysts
  • International Academy of Collaborative Professionals
  • Association of Family and Conciliation Courts

diy divorce

  • 3 Step Divorce: This site allows you to complete divorce papers within an hour. It provides instant access to state-specific forms, guarantees court acceptance, and offers payment plans starting at $84.
  • DivorceWriter: This service is among the most affordable, charging $137 for the completion of your divorce documents. It's straightforward and comes with a refund guarantee if the court doesn't accept the forms. Note: does not provide attorney support. 
  • Divorce.Com: This site allows you to work on a customizable platform with access to experts to support you 
  • OnlineDivorce.com: Offers a basic package for $159 with additional monthly fees for continued access to documents. It's been around for over 20 years and provides a 100% guarantee.
  • Hello Divorce:  This platform focuses on using technology to reduce costs and time. You can get expert support to deliver step-by-step legal, financial and practical guidance throughout your divorce.


Should you choose to DIY your divorce,  please, please, PLEASE still consult with an attorney beforehand to ensure your interests are covered. 

kiddos + co-parenting

  • Sesame Street: Divorce Workshop, App, Toolkit
  • I Have Two Homes - Marian de Smet
  • Living with Mom and Living with Dad - Melanie Walsh
  • Weekends with Dad - Melissa Higgins 
  • When my Parents Forgot How to Be Friends - Jenniver Moore-Mallinos
  • Oliver at the Window - Elizabeth Shreeve
  • Was It the Chocolate Pudding? - Sandra Levins
  • Why Do Families Change? Our First Talk About Separation and Divorce - Dr. Jillian Roberts
  • The Kids' Book of Family Changes: Understanding Divorce and Separation and Managing Feelings -  Catherine Stephenson and Jenny Stephenson
  • Divorced But Still My Parents - Shirley Thomas, Ph.D. + Dorothy Rankin
  • Dinosours Divorce: A Guide for Changing Families - Marc Brown
  • Now What Do I Do?: A Guide to Help Teenagers with Their Parents' Separation or Divorce - Lynn Cassella-Kapusinski  
  • Divorce Is Not the End of the World: Zoe's and Evan's Coping Guide for Kids – Zoe Stern and Evan Stern

online + in person support

  • Grief Recovery Institute
  • Talkspace
  • OptionB
  • BetterHelp
  • DivorceCare
  • Circles

BOOKS

  • When Children Grieve - John W. James + Russell Friednman with Dr. Leslie Landon Matthews
  • Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder - Randy Kreger, Bill Eddy, William Eddy
  • Protecting Yourself from Emotional Predators: Neutralize the Users, Abusers and Manipulators Hidden Among Us - Steven Wolhandler
  • How Will Never Be the Same Again: A Guide for Adult Children of Gray Divorce - Carol R. Hughes, Bruce R. Fredenburg, Bill Eddy 
  • Helping Your Grandchildren Through Their Parents' Divorce - Joan Scrager Cohen
  • The Essential Grandparent's Guide to Divorce: Making a Difference in the Family - Lillian Carson
  • Helping Your Kids Cope with Divorce the Sandcastles Way (M. Gary Newman & Patricia Romanowski)
  •  "Does Wednesday Mean Mom's House or Dad's"? Parenting Together While Living Apart - Marc J. Ackerman 

DOCUMENTARIES + Films

  • Divorce Corp
  • No Way Out But One
  • Split
  • Don't Divorce Me! Kids Rules for Parents on Divorce 

not so fine print + legal mumbo jumbo

The Promise. We do our best to research each product and service and only recommend products or services we have personal experience with, have researched, or know and believe in the creators personally. 


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Make Good Choices. As with most things in life... Be smart and always do your due diligence before handing over your hard earned cash or signing on the dotted lines. 

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